I don’t see how any woman can support the porn industry when men use words like “humiliated”, “destroyed”, “punished” and “degraded” to describe what they do to the women they call “sluts”, “whores”, “bitches” and “cum dumpsters”. That alone should be enough for any woman to understand that the porn industry is based on sexual violence against women and will never benefit us in any way.
Sound: “Because I care about her! Morning, noon, and night I care about her!”
Thousands of videos of women standing with eachother, young and old, every race, religion, nationality. Don’t ever let anyone tell you we arnt ready for a feminist movement.
The argument that has existed for so long, is that “men will” (rape, molest, abuse, wound, kill) “therefore women should” (mould our behaviour around attempting to avoid this inevitability). The new argument against it aspires to a future time where “men won’t”, but turns a blind eye to the men that will. The answer is actually to make it so that “men can’t”. No matter how much they want to, or how women behave.
I hate, hate, HATE the term “affordable housing.” I hate that we’ve normalized it. I hate that we just accept that the majority of housing, a basic human right, is unaffordable to much of the population. Housing should be affordable as a baseline. If rich people want to add arcades and gold-platedhot tubs on top so be it, but everyone, everyone, regardless of income level, should have access to a clean, comfortable home with enough light and space to make life worth living.
Uh oh bestie. Turns out, if you want the rewards of being pillow princess, you have to submit to the mortifying ordeal of telling the service top what you want 😔
Girl, I think you’re lost. This is a lesbian sex blog.
a popular only fans creator has killed herself and as i type this men are flocking to find her content and jerk off to it because they want it even more now they know she’s dead. only fans is not empowering ‘sex work’ is not empowering. it’s degrading and humiliating and the men who purchase and steal this content do so specifically BECAUSE it’s degrading to women. because they hate women. i am so sick and angry all i wish is for that poor woman to rest in peace but men won’t even afford her the most basic dignity
Socialism is not a moral imperative, but a logical and scientific one. Individual socialists can be driven by a sense of justice etc., but ultimately that’s not the strongest argument for socialism. The strongest argument is that practically, objectively, capitalism is holding back humanity, and an economy that’s rationally planned by the working class on the basis of need instead of profit is the best solution to the problems that capitalism creates.
I just don’t see what hookup culture has actually done for women
hit the nail on its head w/ this one ☝🏼
This. The day women started fucking for free on a regular, shit went down hill. If this offended you I truly don’t care, you deserve to be offended.
so many people in the notes want to just ignore the fact that despite what they think hook up cultur has given them, 1) this is literally the least important issue that women are facing right now. You know what HC hasn’t done?
•Challenge men to rethink female sexuality
•Stopped men from viewing women as sex objects
•Given all women the same respectability as the “respectable” non promiscuous female archetype no matter her sexual habits
•Make men rethink or even start a conversation about sexism
•humanize women
•end violence against women
•raise men to a higher standard as sexual or romantic partners
•make men more sexually responsible or accepting of the consequences of hookups
•ended the madonna/whore complex
•Make men not judge women based on women’s sexual habits
•end r*pe culture
•make men more consent conscious
What HC also has done for men:
•made more women sexually available to men who already view women as sex objects
•More women available to men without having to invest any time or effort into gaining the respect of women to have sex
•make women conform to the Male sexual fantasy of endless sexually available women with no strings attatched rather than having to be challenge of this image
•not being required to do the barest of minimums like taking a women out to dinner before having sex
•making it socially acceptable to further devalue women and sex
not requiring men to value valuing women as people as a prerequisite to access sex
But hey, at least at least you can fuck some guy you met 5 mins ago and no one will say anything about it so I guess yall are cool with that, right?
Men are losing absolutely nothing from hook up culture. They’re not being made to change anything about themselves. It’s not gaining social equality for us. It’s not giving us anything we could actually benefit from in the long run. Sure there are women out there who truly do like sta sex, and more power to them, but fact? the vast majority of women dont. Most women dont like feeling like they’re used for sex and nothing more. and that’s not a sign that you should detach your emotions from sex either or make it into some emotionless or mindless act. Never having anything special done for them, never going on dates, never being able to depend on the guy you let beat for shit is not something women enjoy, benefit from or are empowered by. HC has made it so that for men, the understanding that you shouldnt require, hold men to standards or expect anything from them (even tho you’re having sex with them) HAS HIT THE MAINSTREAM IN A MAJOR WAY while expectations for women ar still rigidly in place. And now theres the added expectation that women should dispense sex for absolutely no benefit because now its dirt cheap and you will either have to be superwoman to keep a man or do things you’re uncomfortable with sexually for the same reason, which creates sexual competition amongst women while men are totally untouched and unbothered because that competition will only benefit them.There are women who view sex as a spiritual connection or as something truly special. And believe me, those are not the fruit of virginity culture. Hc doesnt do anything for those women and it doesnt make it easier for them to find the connections they want. Hc has tricked some of yall into undervaluing the physical and not valuing anything that’s not physical.
Dont let porn sick men try to tell you what’s feminist and what’s not.
We’re seeing some of the same fall-out now from Hook-up Culture as from the so-called “Sexual Revolution” of the 1960s. For years, I’ve tried to explain to people that the Sexual Revolution was never about sexual liberation; in fact, the Sexual Revolution was only ever about making more women sexually available to more men. That’s. It.
Hook-up Culture is the same game, just a different decade.
It’s also really important to bring up another way hook-up culture is really harmful is how it encourages mixing heavy drinking with hook-ups.
First of all, encouraging people to mix mixing heavy drinking and minimal communication with hook-ups is highly conducive to rape culture, teaching young people it makes them “liberated” and a “baddy” to have casual sex with complete strangers when they’re often too drunk to properly consent, and encouraging minimal communication during these drunk hook-ups is also conducive to rape culture for obvious reasons.
Also, encouraging people to mix hook-ups with heavy drinking puts people at risk for STD’s / STI’s and accidental pregnancy because just about everyone is significantly less likely to wear a condom and practice safe sex when they’ve been drinking.
